Knowing your value, requires you to be content with who you are and your ability to value yourself.
Let me share this story with you.
A father said to his daughter, “You have graduated with honours, here is a car I bought many years ago. It is pretty old now. But before I give it to you, take it to the used car lot downtown and tell them I want to sell it and see how much they offer you for it.”
The daughter went to the used car lot, returned to her father and said, “They offered me $1,000 because they said it looks pretty worn out.”
“Okay,” the father said. “Now take it to the pawn shop.”
The daughter went to the pawn shop, returned to her father and said, ”The pawn shop offered only $100 because it is an old car.”
“I see,” the father said. “Now go to the car club and show them the car. Come back and tell me what they say.”
The daughter then took the car to the club, returned and told her father, “Some people in the club offered me $100,000 for it because it’s a Nissan Skyline R34. They said it’s an iconic car and sought by many collectors.”
The father listened for a moment and then spoke.
“THE RIGHT PLACE VALUES YOU THE RIGHT WAY,” HE SAID.
“If you are not valued, do not be angry, it only means you are in the wrong place. Those who know your value are those who appreciate you. Never stay in a place where no one sees your value.”
The same applies in our relationships. If we know our value, we know when it is the right time to forgive, to speak up and to walk away. Knowing our value gives us boundaries that we can use in all of our relationships and, more importantly, the strength to uphold them.
Do you know your value? Do you value yourself?
When we value others over ourselves it is hard to see our own value. But reach out because I would love to help.